Help Me Please
LET’S GET STARTED.
Thank you for coming to my website. You’ve typed in ‘help me please’, which means you’ve gone beyond searching for a specific type of help and you’ve lumped your circumstances together into a single deep call for help.
You just want to be you, and be heard, and be truly helped, without having to buy anything, buy into anything, or believe anything new. And that’s it. Right?
No matter how deep your problems are, I will try to offer help here, on this site, and for free. There will be no advice here; what I will offer you is options, enough options to blow apart whatever you are going through, show you a spark of light in your long dark tunnel. I will do this in four ways; please read the following short introductions to these four ways, and then start exploring whichever one seems to meet your need most authentically.
1. THE INTERVIEWS
These are interviews I do with people who have been through things. All kinds of people, from all areas, all ages, and all kinds of life happenings. One of the biggest blind spots of anyone who is suffering, is the feeling that they are alone, that no one understands. But if you are having deep troubles, and you read an interview, or a dozen interviews, with people who are going through similar things, you no longer feel so isolated, and you can learn, be helped, by hearing about how others have coped, even survived and thrived, through circumstances similar to what you are going through.
To read more about these interviews and how I conduct them, please read ‘The Interviews‘ page. Or you can go directly to any category under the ‘Help With What?’ heading at right, and select an interview whose title resonates with your own circumstances. Note that no interview is just about one thing; a ‘change of life’ interview might talk about some great or tragic event leading to that change; a ‘sexual abuse’ interview might talk about later problems in life resulting from the abuse. I try to loosely categorize each interview, but each one includes wider events.
I will add to these interviews constantly, so please check in at a later date, if you do not see an interview that helps you at the moment.
2. THE MIND TOOLS
Usually it is a wide collection of events and decisions that bring you down a road that eventually tightens and bottlenecks into your finally asking ‘help me please’. It is invariably a combination of external happenings, and your reactions and responses to them, that brings you to either success or suffering. This is not a matter of ‘fault’ or blame; the smartest and wisest people can still end up in a place of despair and destitution.
But your mind can evolve into something better; not every difficult circumstance in your life can be thwarted or escaped, however there are thought-tools you can use to better cope with problems, or even to deal with enough parts of a problem so that the whole is reduced in severity and becomes something manageable.
These are a random series of mind tools. Mind tools are just that: thought-tools to help your mind build into a stronger entity. You don’t have to learn any new spiritual words, there are no exercises, you don’t have to learn or remember anything here. Mind tools are simple thoughts that clarify something in your head, help your thought process evolve into something more efficient, healthy, powerful, capable. You just read them, and they start to work.
You can read more about them on ‘The Mind Tools‘ page, or go directly to the Mind Tools category and select one that resonates with you. Each is a powerful tool to help you clear your mind, and clear up your life.
3. THE COURSE (coming soon)
There are always options you have not thought about. Even the wisest, most intelligent and resourceful mind cannot think of every option. Often a life-saving option is literally right in front of you, even within you, and because you are in such a dire state you’re not able to see it clearly.
A magical fact is that there are options that can help everyone. There are actually generic options that you can apply to help cope with, make less painful, or solve if they can be solved, your problems. I have heard so many people say to me “I’ve tried EVERYTHING!”, and “Nothing works, no one can help me!”, and “I don’t know what to do!”.
And BOOM: right away I start in with the truths that can help them: you think you’ve tried everything? You haven’t even come close to trying everything, and I’ll prove it. Nothing works? Everything works, you just haven’t opened to it in the right way. You don’t know what to do? You know entirely what to do, you just haven’t been able to look past your pain and fear, and listen properly.
THE COURSE is a shot of adrenaline for you. If you think you’re ‘at the end’, you’ve ‘hit bottom’, you’ve ‘run out of realistic options’, your ‘life is over’… take my course. It is progressive, linear, blows apart your thought that you’ve reached your limit, and gives you options up your yin yang. And I’m talking about reality… even life or death issues, suicide, bullying, illness, injury, homelessness, everything. You can read more about what the course is here (link coming soon), or you can simply begin reading the course (link coming soon).
Remember: my course, like everything on this site, is free. Nothing to buy, nothing to learn, no exercises, no religiousness, no commercial spirituality. You just read it, and it starts to work.
4. THE QUICK HELP GUIDE (coming soon)
If you still don’t quite know where to go on this site, this is the spot. Here, I’m listing the most common statements in your mind that have driven you to asking ‘help me please’. Statements like:
I want to kill myself
I’m all alone
I’ve hit rock bottom
There’s no future for me
I’m being bullied
I’m being abused
And many more such statements. Each statement will link to a special page that will give you an instant hit of options, and will include links directly to other pages in this site that will deal with this statement.
Again, the buck stops here. I won’t send you to any other websites, you can search those out on your own. Every article on this site is written by myself, every link goes to another page within this site only, every interview is conducted by myself and the final version is approved by the person being interviewed, and even the photos are all by me.
My life is pretty good now. But I have been in that place, of asking HELP ME PLEASE, many times in the past, for many years, and in situations where I did not think I would survive. So I think I can give you realistic and effective options.
And I hope I do that.